If there is one thing that I believe in my heart of hearts about being a parent, it's that words stick with our children. Often the wrong words stay with them, but every once in awhile we get it right and our children truly hear us when we say they are smart, or funny, or beautiful. I always cringe inside when I hear a parent or grandparent tell their child that they are stupid, or fat, or lazy. Many people never get past the hurtful things said to them in their youth. I think that we just never take the time to really think about the things we say and how they may affect our children. I encourage us all to take the time to tell our children or those we care for how valuable they are, I don't think it can ever be said enough. My first story that I will share about my Grandmother Ralston is from one of my older sisters, and it shows me the value of her words.
One of my best memories of Grandma was when she made me a dress for my 8th grade Graduation. I still have the dress. She gave me a necklace to go with it. When I tried the dress and the necklace on she stood me in front of the full length mirror she had in her dinning room. As I looked in the mirror she told me one of the most important things for a young lady to know is that she is beautiful. i never forgot that.
Tomorrow my own son graduates from 8th grade. I will make sure to take the time to let him know how wonderful he is and how proud of him I am.
This is so sweet!
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